Email coaching
Email coaching
1 how to send a first message
2 what kinds of contents to talk about on email message
3 how to send second and following messages
4 how to ask the first date
5 how to prepare for the first date
When you exchange messages with Japanese women, one thing you must be aware Honne and tatemae
Honne tatemae
Dealing with Honne and Tatemae in Japan | JobsInJapan.com
I will read her real mind(Honne) on her messages and tell you them
Here is a sample first message to woman
Nice to meet you, my name is Daniel. Thank you for matching!
I'm also from Kanagawa, so I'd be happy if I could talk about various things! The rabbit in the third picture is cute. Do you have one at home?
Tips on the first message
Ask a question that she can easiely response. But that doesn't mean you have to ask anything.
The important point is to refer to her photosTalk about women's uploaded photos
That's what it is very important to do.
Because it is_
her interest thing
her favorite things
• Things
related to memories such as travel
Since she uploaded the
photos in the apps, there is a high possibility that the photo will
have something to say about it, and touching on the topic on the
first message will dramatically increase in responding to you.
Once
the first reply is received, the next is the second and subsequent
exchanges and "enjoyment of conversation" will be the key
to success.
[Topics that easily talk about with exchanging mail]
• Hobbies
•
Occupation and job description
• Personality
•
Background
• Values (way of thinking about marriage and
work)
• talking about school and classes
• how to spend
the holidays
• Hometown stories
• Frequent visiting
area
second and subsequent messages
I will tell you once you become a member.
[Daytime
date] Recommended place for first date with matching app
Having
tea at a cafe or having lunch at a casual restaurant can be a casual
date, and the price is reasonable and not a burden.
In
addition, restaurants have a wide variety of menus, so they can be
adapted to most people's tastes.
It's best to avoid restaurants
that specialize in spicy food or ○○ restaurants
on a first date when you don't yet know the other person's tastes.
As
for the time, it is best to meet before noon or after noon, and to
disperse in the evening. You can also show your sincerity by
finishing early.
If
you have a movie date in the daytime, you can't talk during the
screening, so it's a good plan to discuss your impressions at a cafe
after watching.
Reference
article
• Lunch is recommended for the first date of the
matching app! What is the reason and how to choose a shop?
As
for how long you should spend together on your first date, 3 hours is
the best.
You may think it's short, but the more you feel "a little unsatisfactory", the more you want to meet again.
"I
want to talk more", "Let's ask this next time", etc.
The expectation of the next date will increase.
Also, the first
date is the first time you've met each other, so if you see each
other for too long, you'll get tired of worrying about it.
It's
a good idea to wrap up after the date before you say, "It was
fun, but I'm tired."
Many people are worried about whether their first date on a matching app will go well.
Preparing
for a successful first date is essential.
Here, we will
introduce the preparations and checkpoints that you want to check and
put on the day before the date.
Whether
the date goes well or not depends on the preparation before the date,
so let's figure it out.
What to do “before the first date”
Check the other person's favorite foods and hobbies
2. Reconfirm the other party's profile
3. Review your messages
4. Shop reservation and date course check
5. Exchange LINE
6. Tell them where to meet
7. Contact for confirmation
The cost of Email coaching : $90
