How to ask a Japanese girl out on the first date ?

 How to ask a Japanese girl out on the first date successfully ?

You know the Japanese girl at work, at party, at some organizations or on dating site and you are interested in asking her out on a date, but you do not know how, you do not know how to ask her out on a date.

Here are some tips on how to ask a Japanese girl out on the first date successfully ?

1. Stay in easy going and fun of you.

You are interested in her, or you like her lots and you may want to show her how seriously you are interested in her.

No ! That is wrong ! On asking for the first date where she knows you a little, do not show her you are very serious, but show her easy going, relaxing and fun of you.

If you show her your seriousness on her, she feels some pressure and burden on your relationship, and may not enjoy in the first dating. As a result, she may decline on your asking for date.

So when you ask a Japanese girl out on the first date, show her your relaxing, easy going and enjoyable attitude.

2. Ask for a first date for lunch time, not for dinner time.

When you think of asking her out on the first date, you usually think, where I should take her, what we will do on dating, but not think about the time of day. You may expect to spend a lot of time with her at night.

Japanese girls are usually very cautious on the first meeting with a man where she knows a little, thus when you invite her at night, she may take some cautious attitude on the night date.

As a result, she may feel some uneasy mind and may decline on your invitation of dating.

Invite her on the first date for lunch time with a relatively short time, 2 or 3 hours. With this time, she can relax and feel secure on the date.

3. When you ask a Japanese girl out on the first date, do not use a word of “ date “

When Japanese girls hear a word of “ date “, it remind them of some kind of relationship.

But at the time of the first date with a Japanese girl, there is no relationship between you and her, which will bring her some burdens on her mind by using a word of “ date “.

Instead use more soft words with a clear purpose, such as,

I know a gourmet Italian restaurant at Shinjuku and their Pasta is very delicious and one of the best in town. Would you like to go ?

I found a very delicious sweets cafe in Shibuya, I am sure you will love it. Let’s try it.

Instead of dating, she feels more relaxing and more enjoyable mind on meeting with you. In fact Japanese girls love sweet so much.

Well, these are some tips on ask a Japanese girl out on the first date. I hope it will help some on your first date with a Japanese girl. More useful information on dating with a Japanese will be coming !